Ladies, feel free to lose your virginity whenever you feel like. Just make sure it is something you want to do rather than something you're forced into doing. When did having sex with a male become a benefit to the male? Forgive me if I'm wrong but I'm pretty sure both parties involved do enjoy it. If as a female you're not enjoying your sex life because your boo is a gra-gra man and only knows how to make himself have an orgasm, I suggest you find someone else. You might end up marrying a one-minute man and hate your marriage and husband if you wait till marriage. Please test that p**is before you marry.